Temptation Island...
sometimes i've really got to agree with the saying
"nan ren dou shi jian de"
which roughly means "guys are all cheap (or something along that line)"
Story Number 1
a close fren of mine, J, has been attached with his gf ever since their sec sch days...which means its been prob at least 8 years already. back in 2003, we went clubbing together and he got to know a ger...stuff happened and he broke up with his gf bcoz of that...
after a while..J came to his senses and ended everything with the new ger...and he had a really hard time getting his gf back...
recently J met his childhood sweetheart from back in pri sch i think...and they exchanged contacts...she is attached as well but apparently unhappy with the current r/s...that chance meeting kinda rekindled some sorta feelings for both of them...they went out secretly a few times and kissed...but much more could happen coz the ger told him she has some fantasies about them...which i will not elaborate on...btw...according to J, the ger looks very good...he is in a terrible dilemma now...
well...this kinda situation is prob what a lot of guys would love to encounter...almost sounds too good to be true...and extremely tempting...i guess usually i would tell my guy frens to go for it...PROVIDED they are 100% sure that its really no strings attached and they can get away with it...without feeling much guilt...he is having some issues with his gf now and his current r/s is kinda stagnant...but is sure that his feelings for his gf wun change...and that they will eventually get married...
i think i kinda surprised myself when i told him not to go for this one...i mean...considering all that the sacrifices his current gf had made for him....and all that they have been through...i think straying once is quite enough...too much and it becomes an addiction...and i have a feeling this childhood sweetheart of his will be a little clingy after a while...
Story Number 2
i have another close guy fren, D. this person is really a Mr Nice Guy...the nicest i know...esp nice to ladies...very obliging...has got a gf of 2 over years...hes not a smooth talker or anything like that...but a very decent guy no doubt...and he is the very last person i would expect to have stray thoughts...
we have this mutual female fren whom we are good frens with since JC...we are her closest male frens i believe...she is attached as well...recently they went out for a chat at nite at a very nice romantic place...this is nothing strange coz the 3 of us used to go to such places for chats...D has always felt that this fren is quite attractive...
somehow they ended up getting a little playful..touchy...and even hugged...
D sent her home...and before she stepped out of the car...they kissed...he has been thinking of that incident ever since...and i think he kinda hope that it could happen again...hoping more would happen...
i shared with D some of my thoughts...didnt really encourage or discourage this time...
i wonder what i would do if i were put in their shoes....but i guess i would be tempted as well...which guy wouldnt?? we all have wants, needs and desires...emotional, physical or sexual...females included...furthermore...we are only young once...
i know how hurt and disappointed/furious/upset/etc etc the gf will be shld she find out...but...as the saying goes..."what daddy doesnt know, doesnt hurt"....rite rite rite???
"nan ren dou shi jian de"
which roughly means "guys are all cheap (or something along that line)"
Story Number 1
a close fren of mine, J, has been attached with his gf ever since their sec sch days...which means its been prob at least 8 years already. back in 2003, we went clubbing together and he got to know a ger...stuff happened and he broke up with his gf bcoz of that...
after a while..J came to his senses and ended everything with the new ger...and he had a really hard time getting his gf back...
recently J met his childhood sweetheart from back in pri sch i think...and they exchanged contacts...she is attached as well but apparently unhappy with the current r/s...that chance meeting kinda rekindled some sorta feelings for both of them...they went out secretly a few times and kissed...but much more could happen coz the ger told him she has some fantasies about them...which i will not elaborate on...btw...according to J, the ger looks very good...he is in a terrible dilemma now...
well...this kinda situation is prob what a lot of guys would love to encounter...almost sounds too good to be true...and extremely tempting...i guess usually i would tell my guy frens to go for it...PROVIDED they are 100% sure that its really no strings attached and they can get away with it...without feeling much guilt...he is having some issues with his gf now and his current r/s is kinda stagnant...but is sure that his feelings for his gf wun change...and that they will eventually get married...
i think i kinda surprised myself when i told him not to go for this one...i mean...considering all that the sacrifices his current gf had made for him....and all that they have been through...i think straying once is quite enough...too much and it becomes an addiction...and i have a feeling this childhood sweetheart of his will be a little clingy after a while...
Story Number 2
i have another close guy fren, D. this person is really a Mr Nice Guy...the nicest i know...esp nice to ladies...very obliging...has got a gf of 2 over years...hes not a smooth talker or anything like that...but a very decent guy no doubt...and he is the very last person i would expect to have stray thoughts...
we have this mutual female fren whom we are good frens with since JC...we are her closest male frens i believe...she is attached as well...recently they went out for a chat at nite at a very nice romantic place...this is nothing strange coz the 3 of us used to go to such places for chats...D has always felt that this fren is quite attractive...
somehow they ended up getting a little playful..touchy...and even hugged...
D sent her home...and before she stepped out of the car...they kissed...he has been thinking of that incident ever since...and i think he kinda hope that it could happen again...hoping more would happen...
i shared with D some of my thoughts...didnt really encourage or discourage this time...
i wonder what i would do if i were put in their shoes....but i guess i would be tempted as well...which guy wouldnt?? we all have wants, needs and desires...emotional, physical or sexual...females included...furthermore...we are only young once...
i know how hurt and disappointed/furious/upset/etc etc the gf will be shld she find out...but...as the saying goes..."what daddy doesnt know, doesnt hurt"....rite rite rite???
if i should ever hafta face such a situation...it will prob boils down to how strongly i feel for my gf...or how good the girl is at seduction...
posted by tranzy at 3:18 PM
1 Comments:
as ur fren, i understand.
as a girl, i despise.
everyone can be tempted by anything. It is those who resist that strong urge who emerge as the strong party.
not saying that u'll definitely do it but then my advise to u (if u dun already know): Before you tempt, think of the face ur partner will have when she witnesses it.
-bgf
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